Having one disaster doesn't sound too terrible considering I don't know what a guy could consider a disaster. I know people have all kinds of different definitions for what is a success and what isn't when it comes to dating. Now why would he mention that there was a disaster if he wasn't going to talk about it? After he told me it wasn't a story for innocent ears I wasn't sure what he expected me to say. Something about me not being innocent so then he'd tell me his story? Was he just trying to hype up what the story actually was?
Either way he never said anything after that. No story and no more messages. What was the purpose of this entire conversation? Was it just for him to see if I would say that I would do some naughty stuff in order for the conversation to continue? Does he not realize that Tinder exists if he wants some sort of booty call? His account doesn't even exist anymore and is inactive, meaning he grew bored of OkCupid because it didn't offer what he wanted to find I'm guessing.
This guy didn't have to beat around the bush and should have instead just been straight up and honest about what he was looking for. Have you had a guy try to pull this sort of stunt? Start a conversation that seems normal before he just disappears because you obviously aren't offering what he's looking for? Let me know what you think in the comments below. (: