So in his profile Anthony said he wanted to be a knight in shining armor. That wasn't exactly something that was needed in my friend's mind so she asked about being a knight errant. That basically means someone who is searching for adventure. Not so hard and easily a great conversation starter. Honestly anything can be an adventure so just telling a story would have been easy. Anthony agrees with such a title and that it is more fitting. Then he responds by saying that he hasn't had any adventures lately seems a bit misleading, right? I mean, why say you are all about adventure and then say you haven't had any lately?
My friend gave Anthony a perfect opportunity to say how to remedy his lack of adventure but apparently he is completely oblivious. How can you say you have no adventure buddy Anthony? Aren't you on a dating app trying to find someone? Couldn't a match be a possible adventure buddy? Also, how is there nothing fun to do? Please keep in mind that where my friend lives there is a lake, river, and forest nearby. That means there are plenty of opportunities for hiking, fishing, rowing, camping, or anything of that nature. Even if that isn't your cup of tea you can't think of anything fun to do? Then how could you possibly have any sort of adventures?
My friend then asked Anthony what he liked to do in his free time and guess what! He loves fishing and hunting! So how is there nothing to do nearby that is fun when you literally live in a place that allows you to do those things? Are they not fun? Because if that is the case why would you enjoy doing them? My friend tried to hint in the conversation that maybe they could go sometime but Anthony just wasn't having it. He was completely oblivious and just kept complaining that there was nothing fun to do.
Why are people like this? I'm not going to say it's just men who are like this because that wouldn't be fair. Either way some people just act like they are all game for adventure and having fun but then have no ideas for what can be fun to do. Or worse than that they are completely unwilling to do anything that they've never done before. Be open to trying new things or actually do what you say you enjoy. Needless to say I told my friend to just drop the conversation with the guy because it clearly wasn't going anywhere. He hadn't even asked to meet up and he really couldn't figure things out.
Let this be a warning guys, if you are completely oblivious and act like there is nothing fun to do then no one is going to talk to you or want to do anything with you. You are basically a dud. Also it shows that you can make a fool of yourself because of what you put on your profile when it's not accurate. What do you all think of Anthony? Do you think he was a knight errant or a knight in shining armor? Or was he just a fake the whole time? Let me know what you think in the comments below. (:
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