Please know that I would have titled this post My Girlfriend and I but of course I am cutting and pasting this straight from the profile of a boy named Drey. I don't want to take away from his message or anything because obviously he is the most important one in this relationship. He puts himself first so you best not forget it. That's right, he is all ready establishing his dominance on an online dating app where people are just swiping back and forth. Let's get into it shall we?
He started off listing his snapchat, which I got rid of because I didn't want to scar any of you for life on accident. You never know what people post on snapchat these days anyways. Add on the fact that if someone willingly gives out their info they want strangers to see what they are posting so they might put on a show if you know what I mean. Let's just avoid all that. I've barely given my snapchat username to a handful of friends and fellow bloggers and that's enough for me. At least he didn't have his Instagram connected or I would have found even more to judge him harshly on.
Drey saying that he and his girlfriend are into other girls is a huge turnoff for me. That's just not what I'm looking for. If someone is out there looking for this kind of relationship I wish you luck because you never know what you'll find. I can't imagine there being no drama if there were other people added into the dynamic of their relationship. Surely something will come up and become a problem or issue for everyone involved in the relationship. Maybe I am wrong and they are just super loving people who will get along with others no matter what.
Either way I get it, everyone has their own thing that they are into when it comes to a relationship. I am the type of person who would only want a one on one relationship and that would be enough to try and deal with. Adding anyone else to the mix just seems a bit strange, weird, and wrong. That's my own opinion for my own relationship. Others may find it completely normal and easy to deal with so kudos to them. I met a trio who were all very much into each other and their relationship obviously worked for them. To each their own.
What do you all think? I mean, I wish Drey and his girl luck in finding another girl to add to the mix but don't you think that would eventually result in drama? Have you ever been asked or invited to join in on a relationship where you would be the third one involved? If so what did you do? As always let me know what you think in the comments below. (: